Shibari and kinbaku are terms referring to the Japanese art of binding a person using ropes. They are often used synonymously, but some bondage practitioners believe there are some differences in meaning and context between the two.
I define shibari as rope bondage in the Japanese style (technique).
It’s as simple as that:
- Bondage means there is an interaction between people, in a sadomasochistic way, aimed at restricting mobility, subjugating the partner.
- The rope is the main and most often the only tool in the hands of the Top partner.
- Japanese style – technique of binding, the style is traditional, characterized primarily by complex weaving patterns, with minimal use of knots.
Definition of shibari and kinbaku
The term “shibari” (縛り) comes from the Japanese verb “shibaru”, which means “to bind”. The word was originally used in a general sense to refer to the act of binding.
The word “kinbaku” (緊縛) translates to “tight binding” or “close binding”. This term emphasizes the more intimate and erotic aspect of the practice, focusing on the emotional connection between the participants and the sensual experiences that arise during the binding process.
Historical context of shibari
It is believed that the art of shibari and kinbaku originated from the ancient Japanese techniques of combat binding – hojo-jutsu, which were used in the XV-XVI centuries to immobilize and torture opponents. In the middle of the 20th century these techniques were transformed into a form of erotic and aesthetic practice. In post-war Japan, theatrical shows inspired by Kabuki theater began to take place, featuring elaborate and aesthetically pleasing strapping. These shows helped popularize shibari as an art form.
Personally, I do not share this beautiful legend. My opinion is that shibari grew out of S&M play and was enriched through the creativity of artists and performers. Later, shibari borrowed some techniques from various schools of binding and torture practices used in the feudal Japanese judicial system.
Differences between shibari and kinbaku
Both terms are used interchangeably, being essentially synonymous. However, some bondage practitioners believe the differences are still present:
- Shibari emphasizes the visual and artistic side of bondage, creating intricate and beautiful patterns.
- Kinbaku focuses more on the emotional and sensual component, emphasizing the intimacy of the interaction between the participants.
Use of terms: In the international community, the term “shibari” is more commonly used, while in Japan “kinbaku” is more commonly used.
Modern understanding of shibari
Today, shibari and kinbaku are practiced worldwide as art forms, as a way of expressing intimacy and trust between partners, and as elements of performances and photo shoots. The practice requires a high level of skill on the part of the performer (rigger) and complete trust on the part of the model.
Safety is key, so it is important to take all necessary precautions and have tools on hand for quick release if needed. It is best to learn in person from an experienced bondage artist whose style of tying is closest to you. If there is no such opportunity, I recommend you to pay attention to my video course on teaching shibari techniques and schemes: Shibari Guru
Also, it is very important to use the right tool and here our store of ropes for shibari will help you.
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